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How I turned my Loneliness Feelings to something Creative and Effective?
I am getting crazy these days, I feel I am transforming to someone else, this started to happen to me since my wife traveled to visit her family, and I have to live for alone for a while!
I was expecting some minor changes in my life after she leave, being home alone after she filled me and everything around me with a great feelings, life, love, and so many smiles, all this made me feel how life is quite and empty with out her.
I believe that traveling is a great thing, it’s a great change in life, but the worst thing could happen is that you are the one who have to STAY, and left behind!!
here I am Stuck in my office in the middle of my projects, designs, blogs, plans, and meetings , I can not go anywhere but I am some how everywhere!
Is it Possible to find a Media Project that these days?!
I am trying to find out a good way to give my self the full freedom, I am trying to reach a project that can fix my payments for a longer time, maybe a one or two years project, that kind of projects that last for a decent time, I know it’s not easy, but nothing is impossible, life contains only hard things to do, and this is the joy of life.
It would be great if this could happen soon, and I can find the right project for me, it’s the only way for me to feel free, I don’t want to be stuck in on one place, I don’t want to work from one office all day, I want to work from everywhere, to be able to take my office with me, and manage my biz online, I would love to use the power of communications.
I am sure that people who can succeed in managing their biz online have to use their mind lots, and do a big physical efforts. I feel that I have energy, I feel that I can use my mind more, you know why? Because maybe I am not using it at all :)
Yeah, I don’t want to be sad.. I am fighting against my thoughts of sadness not to think about it! it’s getting more crazy here :)
I have involved my self more on work, trying concentrate on how to make this life better, even this post you are reading now is a part of my work, and a chapter of my life!
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You now have my email….I have some of the same thoughts and a lot of idea’s. I’m from an accounting background and have some business ideas I want to develop.
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Hisham Reply:
April 14th, 2009 at 12:21 PM
@Thomas Hecht, Sure Thomas, I will contact you soon!
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I completely understand Hisham, all those years as an over the road truck driver kept me from my wife and kids for weeks at a time. I agree that staying busy and productive is the best way to get through it. Isn’t she here in the US? What area?
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Hisham Reply:
April 14th, 2009 at 2:28 PM
@Brian D. Hawkins, Yes I believe so :) , yeah she is Texas right now!
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Hay, U blog very interesting
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Hisham Reply:
April 16th, 2009 at 2:20 AM
@Pixell, You are welcome!
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You really have to keep your mind busy! I know you miss your significant other a lot, but for the time being you have no control over what’s happening. Just keep blogging! You are doing a great job Hisham.
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Hisham Reply:
April 16th, 2009 at 12:12 PM
@Kai Lo, Sometimes life is not smooth!!
I will try my best Kai, I just don’t like it when I feel my hands tight behind my back, and can not do anything about it.
Thank you a lot for supporting !
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Hi Hishaman. Thank you for visiting my site awhile ago and for leaving a very nice comment. I hope you drop by again whenever you have the chance.
How are you? I hope you overcome whatever problem or emotional state you are in right now. All for the best! :)
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Hisham Reply:
April 25th, 2009 at 12:43 AM
@Yami, You are welcome , and thanks for the great comment here :)
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nice idea sometime I don’t have creativity this help me a lot
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Hisham Reply:
April 25th, 2009 at 12:44 AM
@755t, The creativity here was involving myself on work :) very simple, thanks for the visit!
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Hi. just saw your reply in my inbox. Thanks for following my blog. I hope to keep up to my readers’ expectations and bear with me whenever there are errors and flaws in my postings. Thanks so much. :)
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Hisham Reply:
April 26th, 2009 at 2:42 PM
@Yami, You are welcome, this is my pleasure!
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Hisham, if I have an advice to give you, cherish the time you have with your wife and put your family before your work.
I found myself in the same situation as you 5 years ago, where my wife went on a trip with our daughters while I was busy working and being overly concerned about making money.
The problem is that they got an accident and never came back, before I realized what happened I had to organize the funeral of my wife and 2 daughters…
I got the chance to find someone else to share my life recently, and I can assure you that since that day, I have strongly re-evaluated my priorities in life.
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Think of nice and happy things. Think of the Blessings that you had received within these days.
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I agree with IJ Styles that we can only overcome our sadness and loneliness even by getting ourselves busy with some constructive work or by recalling all the blessings of God and thanking him for all of His favors.
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You’re doing wonderful work, Hesham. Nobody can work and/or be creative ’round-the-clock. Just as we need rest and food and occasional diversions to keep the mind fresh, we need to honor our feelings.
Loneliness can be incredibly painful and disorienting. But you feel like that because you love your wife. And those feelings reflect that love.
I realize it’s important to stay upful and look at life positively. But unlike many people, I believe in recognizing pain and loss and hurt. They’re terrible and strong emotions and, for me, it’s easier to cope when I acknowledge them. Writing about them sometimes help. But respecting the hurt, giving it a proper place in one’s day the same as in the heart, feels right to me.
Not every situation in life is bright and happy. God gives us both the good and the bad.
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You will be ok when your wife come back. Plus, you can not work non-stop all the time, especially when it is creative work.
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