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Is it Really Hard for a Man to Live Alone?

I sometimes got so bored being home alone, one month already passed, I lost my passion for washing dishes since the second week,  but still want to have my cup of coffee, I am not happy to tell you that I became addicted to coffee after involving myself deeply at work, I spend more than my normal working hours, some times it’s more than 16 hours behind my laptop screen.

I was thinking about how to change my mode when I don’t feel good, and also do some cleaning, I am afraid to end in a dirty place, and this is not good at all, and maybe it will annoy someone – my wife- a lot :)  naaahh, I will not let this happen to me!

Believe me it’s not easy after getting married and used to get your food ready and love the way my wife serve my cup of coffee!

So, I finally got an idea to solve this problem being home alone and have to work and do my home duty at the same time. I reached a serious situation here, almost all my cups and dishes are dirty inside the sink. I thought it might be a good idea to take my time and do part of the job everyday!

Yes, It’s that hard on me, but I will do is as I plan it, I decided to wash two coups and 2 spoons when ever I want to have some coffee, so after one week or something I will have all my cubs clean, also do the same with dishes.

I know maybe someone will think I am making this big, anyone can spend 1 hour and clean the whole kitchen, but for me it’s different, I feel so depressed that I can not imagine I am doing it that way, so I prefer expand it through the whole week and by this way it will not take me more than 3 minutes everyday to get my kitchen clean in one week!

You know what? I am not sure of what I am typing!

I am just wondering how it will be if a man have to live alone for the rest of his life! How hard it will be? I hope I am not that man.

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28 Responses to “Is it Really Hard for a Man to Live Alone?”

  1. Preston says:

    I have been partially alone for the past 6 years. I had a roommate for a short period of time and my daughter moved back home a few years ago. She was not working so she would clean and make me lunch dinner. Now she works and is usually not home when I get home from work. I miss the dinners and I know how easy it is to get lazy with the dishes. But don’t let it bring you down. If you’re lonely, find a friend to hang out with. Plus, I find I’m happier in a clean house and sadder when it’s a mess…

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  2. Chowner says:

    I lived alone for two years and enjoyed it. I had all the privacy I wanted, but could invite people over whenever I felt like it. To me, it wasn’t bad. But I enjoy some alone time.

    Chowner’s last blog post..What I imagined life would have been like growing up with Bob Cole, Hockey Night in Canada’s play-by-play announcer.

  3. Adrenalynn says:

    Haha, awesome. You know, having guests over is the best way to keep your house clean! Then you’ll have to:)
    Seriously, though- why not just wash all the dishes, and then whenever you use something, clean it right away and put it back! Way easier:)

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  4. alone says:

    I always feel lonely but and sometimes let the mess inside my room. But sometimes we have to change the rhythm. We can’t play the same tone until the rest of our life.

    We have to fight the depressed feeling no matter what.

    Yeah, I also don’t want to be alone for my entire life.

    alone’s last blog post..10 Reasons Why I Love Blogging

  5. Hisham says:

    @Preston, I know exactly what you are missing Preston.
    I am trying to hang out but it’s not working for me that much because I have lots to do and stacked almost all the time with my computers in a try to pass time in a good way!

    You have no idea how much I appreciate your comment! I wish you all the best!

  6. Hisham says:

    @Chowner, Yeah.. I understand what you mean by privacy, but it’s something that I would gave up just not to be alone anymore, I feel like can’t go back in time and live like a single guy!

  7. Hisham says:

    @sam sall, You are right Sam, but you know that God created us with the feeling of something is missing!!

    I feel I am a half :)

  8. Hisham says:

    @Adrenalynn, Some times I think to wash everything and then hid it where my hands can’t get it :)

    having guest is the worst thing to do Adrenalynn because who will clean after they leave?!

  9. Hisham says:

    @alone, Yeah, no body want to be alone for his entire life, but you picked the right name for your blog “alone” :)

    I was thinking of you today when I was writing this post, thought to ask you if you are living alone like your blog’s name! but for some reason your blog was not opening for me, now it’s open, thanks for coming by, and wish you all the best!

  10. Kikolani says:

    When I was living alone, I couldn’t get anything done until things were clean. So I became a neat freak. I think anyone, after living alone for a bit, will come around and figure it out for themselves.

    ~ Kristi

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  11. Hisham says:

    @Kikolani, I think it’s different a little between women and men, the good thing is you learned good stuff :) thanks Kristi!

  12. I was married 3 times and lived alone for more than 5 years at a time. My experience tells me, that when I manage to be in peace with myself, stop worrying about the future or the past, I can live alone and even don’t feel anything wrong with that.

    Now I’m happily married and have discovered that the same attitude leads to peace in marriage too.

    Alexei Zoubov’s last blog post..Mike Filsame on the dangers of the One Time Offer (OTO)

  13. sam sall says:

    i think it is possible for a man to live a lone it is just harder if he used to have someone with him ,but if he had to live a lone he can manage by his own way,it could be messy life or home but he will survive . IT WILL NOT BE A PERFECT life and he will get better doing it as the time pass by. BUT FOR SOMEONE TO FLOURISH and have the taste of a good life one need to share it with loved ones

    sam sall’s last blog post..If I was loaned $25,000 today, This is How I will spend it

  14. Hisham says:

    You are right @Alexei , Thank you for sharing this story with us, I appreciate that, wish you happy life, keep in touch!

  15. Morgan says:

    More than 16 hours behind a laptop screen?! Ah! No wonder you’re addicted to coffee…poor thing. Give your eyes a break!

    I think that it’s good that you have a game plan ready to go to get that kitchen back in order.

    I think that one thing that comes with having a girlfriend or a wife is that they inspire you to clean…or you do it together, so you have two people tackling the kitchen and not just one. That’s the case for my boyfriend and I! It makes the work go by much faster. :)

    Take care!

    Morgan’s last blog post..My Life: My Purse

  16. eng.memo says:

    it’s the best time i have had when i was alone for 6 years
    i wish i could get it again

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  17. suzen says:

    Doing dishes is a pain, don’t care if you are living alone or with a house full! Once you get “caught up” with those kitchen duties, a quick 5 min. each day ought to do ya! In general I think men have a much harder time being at home alone than wormen – maybe its genes? :)

    suzen’s last blog post..Stress – Emotional Illness vs Architecture? Part 2

  18. Jeanine says:

    Hey didn’t God say that it wasn’t good for man to be alone? But I noticed that the bible never says that it isn’t good for a woman to be alone, so maybe women cope better. Haha..just kidding.

    Jeanine’s last blog post..Women Who Don’t Know They Are Pregnant Until the Baby is Born

  19. Mikes says:

    hmm… You can do it hisham. You can live alone. That’s just for the time being though so don’t worry.

    By the way will you ever show your face and not just a cartoon pic?


    Mikes’s last blog post..Kris Allen will be the next American Idol | All for God’s Glory

  20. Mikes says:

    @Jeanine, HAHAHA This one’s funny Jeanine. I agree, it’s not for man to be alone but no i don’t agree women can cope better. that’s a far out conclusion.

    Mikes’s last blog post..Kris Allen will be the next American Idol | All for God’s Glory

  21. Mikes says:

    @Hisham, hmm.. i’m smelling “getting rid of wife” here. LOL!

    Mikes’s last blog post..Kris Allen will be the next American Idol | All for God’s Glory

  22. Mikes says:

    @suzen, Maybe it’s genes. maybe it’s culture.

    Mikes’s last blog post..Kris Allen will be the next American Idol | All for God’s Glory

  23. Hisham says:

    @mwaybob, Yeah this is how I feel now!

  24. mwaybob says:

    Its the coffee!! Ive been there my friend, getting used to coffee does terrible things, If I have more than 3 cups a day I start to loose the will to clean, to tidy, to do anything really. careful with that coffee!

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  25. Isimma says:

    I HATE doing dishes as well, but it’s rare that I’ll go to sleep with a sink full of dirty dishes.

    You can do what I do, create a dishwashing playlist on your iPod, blast some tunes, dance like a fool, do the dishes and your sink will be empty in no time.

    Isimma’s last blog post..Day Two: Get out of jail, free

  26. Hisham says:

    Yeah @Morgan, you are right helping each other was much more fun than do it alone!

    you remind me with a great moments in my life!
    thanks a lot, keep in touch.

  27. Painter says:

    I have been alone for over 20 years. There comes a time when as a man when you realize that things are not going to change. Sadly I was born too different. Being different is a curse, especially if you are male. Women do not want a man who can think or who has a drive to give something to the world. Anyhow, I have come to understand that loneliness can be a way of life. Like one woman told me, not everyone has somebody. And after many years I realized that its true. Some men are just alone and there is nothing they can do about it. At least think about the time when you were married. At least you experienced that joy for a moment. To love is better to have never been loved. For me, I know that I will never be loved by another. And it is okay. I no longer cry. I realize that men must carry a burden in life. Though I would never wish my life on anyone.

    Sometimes tears are not enough to release the hurt of a lifetime.

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