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My Wife is My Best Friend
Here I am, alone again in all places, but my heart and soul is not empty, some times we have to be without people we love, she had to travel to visit the family, I know this is very important, that’s why I am trying hard not to feel so bad about it.
I don’t like the days with out her, I don’t like the house with out her, I hate to be alone with out her. She is my everything in this life, we are so connected to each other, day after day, month after month, and now year after year I realized that I can not live with out my Hayat.
I always get stressed when she travel alone, I had to track her long flight, thanks god this kind of services exists to help us feel better, by tracking flights online, when we are worried for someone who is traveling, and want to be sure he arrive safe.
I feel lonely in the place, maybe because everything around me is more quite since she left, but I still see her smile, remembering how it was great to be with her, I can tell she is the most person I like to spend time with in this life.
Anyways, I can tell that I feel better now after her first call when she arrived to the other part of the world.
But what is my plans while being alone for one month or two?
I planed to work hard and involve my self deep in my projects. Wish me good luck!!
My love Hayat, you are my best friend, I used to wake up and see you everyday sleeping like a baby safely next to me, and when I wake you up to kiss you before go to work I am always grateful for your smile, generous spirit, thoughtfulness to me. I miss all that, but you are in my heart and mind always. I love you.
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that’s awesome, pal. that’s awesome.
love to read this post =)
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It’s wonderful when you are married to your best friend! My hubby is very protective of me because he does not want me to be alone and as he puts it, I am his best friend! Great post!
This is one of the sweetest blog postings I have ever read. I hope to mean the world to someone one day to.
You wife is lucky & you are to!
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@alone, Thanks man!
@Gracie Weisenberger, Good for you, it’s a great thing when a couple is best friends!
@C Brownlee, Thanks for the sweet words, and the visit :)
You are incredible…as I am sure your wife is too!
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I’m marrying my best friend as well. :) Very sorry to hear that you guys are apart at the moment. It’s tough. My fiance and I were apart for months at a time for a good five years. It’s hard but then again.. it really develops one’s relationship with the other. Strengthens it! So good luck and keep productive. :)
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@Latrina, Yes, I read your post about it, it’s painful but as you say strength the relationship. thank you for your visit, I wish you a happy life with your beloved one!
@shane, Ohh thank you shane, thank you for being active and bring always good stuff to your blog!
The depth of her absence is truly a measure of your love for one another, which makes even the temporary pain a thing of beauty.
Write her a daily love letter… She’ll treasure the notes upon her return to you.
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@Hisham, Thank you Hisham. You know one of my best friends in college was named Hisham. :)
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Your feelings and sentiments are brought out nicely, and they are all true. The spouse is the only companion in anybody’s life. Your constant concern for her when she is away lke tracking her safety while traveling speak volumes about your sentiments. Keep it up Hisham
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@Gopal. G. (Gkannan), Thank you so much for your sweet words, I can say that me and my wife are so connected with each other, that makes me worry for her and want to be sure she is safe all the time!
I appreciate your visit!
@Heather Dugan, Yes, it’s that kind of beautiful sadness feeling, at least you know that the other person care for you while you are apart!
@shane, Good to know that this name exists in other parts of the world :)
I’m sure she feels the same way about you! For the time being, you have a lot of posting to do mister. Keep in touch!
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What a lovely post :) I feel like that when my husband goes away to work… even though its only for a week maybe two, its always hard to be without him. Your wife is a very lucky woman :D
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@Ria, I wish you Happy moments, thanks for your nice visit!
@Kai Lo, Yes, I am sure of that too Kai, Thanks man!
That’s so sweet, Hisham :)
It’ great to post something like this because not only expressing your feelings but also telling people what marriage means, hopefuly men will understand!
Okay I’m man not woman yet I do reject the way many husbands treat their wifes with so let us hope they read your post!
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Just stopping and say hi!!!.
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@Hicham, Thank you for visiting my blog TODAY :)
I really appreciate your kind and sweet words Hicham, and I agree with you that so lots of men do it the wrong way!
@Aree, Hello, thanks for the visit!
aww.. so sweet. I gotta say my husband is my best friend (most of the time, our spouse is the best, best friend).
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@Sarah, This is good thing to know, I wish you Happy Life together!
After 36 years of living together, even one day of separation from my wife is terribly unbearable. The real affection and attachment grow upward as years go by. I understand your feelings. God bless you all.
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Thank you @Gopal.G, I am living on phone calls and emails, it’s not the same feelings but this is what I can get now!!
I juts hope me and my wife get back together soon, wish me good luck!
thanks for the nice and honest comment, I always like comments from real people like you!
Hi,
I assume you’re back with your wife and best friend now. Wish you all the best for a wonderful married life. As my pastor says, “Separation makes the heart grow fonder. Presence makes it thunder.”
But I know that it is also the case that we tend to be ourselves most to our best friend. And that’s not always good. We can get curt and abrupt with them easier than with others. We can get irritated at them. In a way this is because we are together with them so much that it is easy to see their faults and shortcomings. And they can see ours. We also become upset more at those faults. And we tend to show it more. This is where we need to be careful and tread carefully. The tendency to criticize and complain openly is stronger. The tendency to be demanding is stronger. So we must watch ourselves more and work on preventing this tendency to be hard or uncaring on those we love most. Otherwise the precious friendship that we have slowly grows colder because “we have seen the true person”. But here’s where we need to love in spite of the imperfections that we see – and indeed that we all have but tend to point out in others and ignore in ourselves. Learn to love and love unconditionally – this is what we need to do!
I love my wife – who is my best friend too. And I want to be kind and gentle to her all the days of our lives together.
All the best!
@Jacob George, We are only the half, and we can not live without the other half!
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I, too am separated from my husband at the moment. he is working in Italy while I have work tied down as well in another country. I miss him but luckily there’s Skype so it’s good!
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