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Qwaider Planet.. Do You Really Care for My Blog?

Qwaider surprised me when I read his comments on two of my recent posts, (This is one of them), after I read is comment I said to my self maybe he will run some kind of campaign against me if I don’t write what he would like to read.

I understand when he advised me before to be a ware from subscribing lots of people with my aggregator that I have created in the past for testing  purposes, I really appreciate all his advices to me and thank him for his time, I can not say he is not an expert on that because I am a member of the Qwaider Planet the nice aggregator he is running, the advice was about what could happen if I have lots of feed subscribers which effect the bandwidth and maybe I will suffer from extra payments to the hosting company. Actually no one knows my budget!

It’s also seem that some times when people are not in a good mood they post what ever comment on other’s blogs.

Do you really care?
I don’t know man why you are offending me with your comments and offending my readers as well and make fun of them?

Lets say you are the most intelligent person in the world, and I am a small member of your community, this doesn’t mean you have the right to insult my readers and make fun of them with your comments, maybe you ignored the reason behind why any person could be featured on My Life Thinking community, so maybe this is why you are doing it, or maybe because I am taking some of your bandwidth and make you pay extra money to host it with out writing good content for you.

I don’t want to be a part of Qwaider planet anymore if this will make you feel better.
While the concept of good content is depending on who is reading your content, and whom you are targeting, I think it is a big mistake to judge on content just because they didn’t match your requirements or filled your expectations, maybe someone else who doesn’t have the knowledge you have will appreciate my posts, and it will be good enough for him.

We are in a very wide open world and there is lots of different backgrounds here, and THIS IS My Life Thinking I am talking about, the way I want it, the way it will be, and everybody has his own way.

How come someone think you are too desperate?!
Just because you wrote some posts that will take a space on your aggregator page? How come someone can say that most of all people who subscribed to feeds are spammers? Is this by nature or you are just guessing?!
You even look more worry than giving advice.

I really don’t know, but I don’t feel comfort with all of this. Just delete my account if you don’t like my posts or you think it doesn’t give any value to your community.

No body here will care about your comments or accept your advice if you give it in a bad way!

I am not used to delete comments from my blog, but it sounds that you want to put me down, I didn’t expect that from you, maybe it would be a better idea if you dropped an email in to my inbox instead of taking it to the public specially in a post I am featured someone was active on my network!

The good news is not all people think the same way!


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8 Responses to “Qwaider Planet.. Do You Really Care for My Blog?”

  1. Didn’t you ask for advice? Wasn’t that what you asked me in your reply! How come you’re upset now that I gave you my most honest advice I can and wasted my time writing it. Not only that, you took a very abstract comment and started thinking that it’s directed at you personally. It wasn’t intended to be personal

    Anyway, good luck. Sorry if I offended anyone. It wasn’t intentional at all.

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  2. Oh and to answer your question in the title, yes, I used to care. But thanks for setting me straight.

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  3. Hisham says:

    I didn’t set you straight, but you set your self when you commented making fun of my community and this put me down, then I asked for your advice because you said I am getting desperate some how, I didn’t ask for criticize my other post.

    Anyways I am considering you as a great person, I was shocked because I never thought you will add such comment!

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  4. Qwaider says:

    Ahhh, my good friend … If you read my comment carefully, you’ll notice a few things, allow me to state them here, just for the sake of clarity.
    1) I didn’t mean you for the most part, but rather, the original post that you linked to
    2) I didn’t mean any disrespect to you, or to your readers. I was sharing my experience.
    3) I’ve never tried to put you down. If anything, look at all my previous comments and you’ll notice that I (and probably alone) were your biggest supporter. I’ve made that perfectly clear several times
    4) I’m not asking you or anyone to conform to any specific method of writing. It’s not my place. I was giving advice on areas that feel I have some knowledge about.
    5) My personal position on how to present your feed, which service to use and related stuff, is my personal position. I’m not trying to shove it down any one’s throat.
    6) My personal choice of what to present to users and why, isn’t to “put you down” as you thought. It’s in fact to state the reason why “I-personally-think” is the way to present things. And as I said it, I meant it as a convenience to your readers.
    7) I NEVER ever thought or consider attacking anyone. Why would I pick on you? I mean, come on! why of all the 70billion blogs out there I would pick on you in particular?! I have no reason, no motive… Especially when historically I’ve been nothing but your supporter. I mean… I’m completely puzzled by this whole thing!

    As I said, if you take from any of my comments any form of hostility or disrespect, I apologize because I didn’t mean anything like that. But I’m not sorry for giving my opinion on these matters. And if you happen to disagree, then wonderful. That’s your prerogative. There are no two people on the face of this planet that can agree on everything!

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  5. Qwaider says:

    By the way, if you have doubts about my opinion on Feedburner, and showing your feed subscribers (which I myself do, so I’m not going to preach much) just look at a top world wide blog like The huffington Post.

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  6. sarah says:

    he totally ‘used’ to care so he came back for to put 2 more comments lol.

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  7. RaiulBaztepo says:

    Hello!
    Very Interesting post! Thank you for such interesting resource!
    PS: Sorry for my bad english, I’v just started to learn this language ;)
    See you!
    Your, Raiul Baztepo

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  8. PiterKokoniz says:

    Hi !!! :)
    My name is Piter Kokoniz. oOnly want to tell, that I like your blog very much!
    And want to ask you: what was the reasson for you to start this blog?
    Sorry for my bad english:)
    Thank you:)
    Piter Kokoniz, from Latvia

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